He hana nui ka hanai keiki ana | aʻo

Hoʻoikaika nā keiki iā ʻoe a he nui nā mākua e uluhua i kekahi manawa. Hiki iā lākou ke hoʻonāukiuki a hoʻonui ke kumu kūʻai o ke ola i ka ulu ʻana o kahi ʻohana.

ʻAʻole paʻakikī ka loaʻa ʻana o nā keiki, no laila nui nā keiki i ka nui

Hoʻohui ʻia, kapu loa nā hana a me nā manawa kūpono e komo ai i kāu mau leʻaleʻa ponoʻī. Hoʻomaʻo ʻia ka hoʻomanawanui i kekahi manawa, akā ... Hāʻawi nā keiki i nā mea hou aʻe ma mua o kā lākou lawe! ʻO ka paio mua e ʻōlelo ai no nā keiki a me ka ʻohana a ʻo ka mea nui maoli ka aloha.

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ʻO ka hānai ʻana i nā keiki - © goodluz / Adobe Stock

ʻO ke aloha wale nō ka maikaʻi ma ka honua e ulu ana a hoʻi ʻoe i nā kumukūʻai inā kūʻai ʻoe. ʻO ke kanaka i loaʻa ʻole ke aloha e like me ka hiki ʻole ke ola me he mea lā ʻaʻohe ona ea e hanu ai. Me ke aloha e hiki mai ai ka manaʻo palekana.

I ka manawa like, me ke kuleana no kahi keiki, he hana nui kāu. No ka mea me ka ʻole o ke aloha, ke aloha, ka nānā, ka palekana a me ka hoʻomaopopo, ʻaʻole hiki i kahi keiki ke pale i ka wā makua. Ma ke ʻano he makua, makemake maʻalahi ʻia ʻoe i kahi ala ʻole. A ʻo wai ka mea ʻoluʻolu ʻole i ka manaʻo e pono ana?

Nā pilikia hou i kēlā me kēia lā

Me nā keiki ke alo aku nei ʻoe i nā pilikia hou i kēlā me kēia lā. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi mua i ka mea a ka lā hou e lawe mai ai. Mahalo paha e pīhoihoi ke keiki iā ʻoe me ka pua hoʻokalakupua? Haʻalele paha ʻoe i ke keiki i loko o ka lumi no ʻelua mau minuke a ma hope ua pena ʻia ia mai luna a lalo?

Hoʻonui nā keiki i ke ola i ke kala, kahaha a pono ke noho ʻana i loko. Hiki ke hoʻokomo wiwo ʻole i ka wili o kēlā me kēia lā i kahi drawer a poina ʻia. Ua hoʻolālā ʻia no ka lā? A laila hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike he kīloi ʻia kēia mau mea a i ʻole ma ka liʻiliʻi i hoʻoponopono ʻia.

Me nā keiki, hōʻoia ʻia ʻoe e hoʻomohala mau i nā wahi e like me ka wā ʻole, ka maʻalahi a me ka wikiwiki.

I ka manawa like loaʻa iā ʻoe ka manawa kūpono e ʻike hou ai i ke keiki i loko ou. Ke ʻike nei i nā mea me nā maka hou a ʻike i ka honua mai kahi ʻano ʻokoʻa loa o ka manaʻo. E hele hou ka ʻaka a me ka mālie a ʻike ʻoe i ka wiwo ʻole e hana wale i kahi mea ʻano ʻole a pupule paha. ʻO kahi laʻana, me ka ʻole o nā keiki, manaʻo ʻoe e pili ana i ka ʻūlū nui ʻana e like me ka ʻāpō i waenakonu o ka supermarket?

I ka manawa like, paipai ʻole ʻia kāu hana iho. Ua ʻae ʻiʻo nō ʻoe he kanaka uncreative a untalented paha ʻoe? Hōʻike ke keiki iā ʻoe i kou ʻano maoli a me nā mea nani a kou manaʻo iho e hana ai.

ʻO ke kino a me ka noʻonoʻo pono

Eia kekahi, mālama nā keiki i ke kino a me ka noʻonoʻo pono. Pono nā keiki i ka neʻe a me ka hana a ʻike koke ʻoe iā ʻoe iho ma ka pāheona pāʻani. A i ʻole e alo paha ʻoe i nā nīnau āu e noʻonoʻo ʻole ai ma mua.

Hāʻawi ka hānai ʻana i nā keiki iā mākou i ka manawa kūpono kūpono e noʻonoʻo ai iā mākou iho a hoʻomohala i ko mākou ʻano iho.

Me kahi ʻohana ʻaʻole ʻoe e like me ʻoe ma mua. ʻAʻohe mea hoihoi loa nā mea ma mua he mea nui ia iā ʻoe. Pēlā nō, kū koke kekahi me nā makaʻu i manaʻo ʻole ʻia e kekahi. ʻO kēia mau ʻike āpau e hoʻolilo iā ʻoe i kou ʻano a hoʻokahua i kou ʻano.

Nā ʻōlelo ʻoiaʻiʻo mai ka waha o nā keiki a i nā ʻōlelo puanaʻī

ʻAʻole wale ka waha o kahi keiki e hōʻike ana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. Ma kā mākou nō hoʻi ʻAoʻao e pili ana i nā ʻōlelo a nā keiki  aia he nui nā puanaʻī a me ke akamai e ʻike ʻia e loaʻa mau ana ma ka liʻiliʻi o ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻO ke ola me nā keiki ʻokoʻa a like mau. He ʻike ko kēlā me kēia hanauna, akā mau ke ʻano o ke kumu.

ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o nā keiki, aloha iā lākou, hoʻomākaukau iā lākou no ke ola a ʻaʻole wale ke kālai ʻana i kā lākou mau huapalapala he mau hanana kupaianaha - inā ʻoe e mākaukau.

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E ʻike ʻoe i nā ʻaoʻao kala manuahi he nui me nā hoʻolālā ʻoluʻolu keiki no nā keikikāne a me nā kaikamahine. Me nā anakuhi lima hana lima, nā puʻupuʻu aloha keiki, nā ʻōkuhi no nā hana helu, nā manaʻo pāʻani a me ka puka makua no nā mākua. Kūpono nā ʻaoʻao kala no nā keiki mai ka papa mālaaʻo a i ke kula haʻahaʻa. Ma muli o ka pena ʻana i nā kiʻi e paipai ʻia ai ka laulima ʻana o ka maka me ka mākau, nā mākau koʻikoʻi a maikaʻi hoʻi, ka hana ʻana, ka typeface a waiho i ka manaʻo o nā keiki i ke kūʻokoʻa. A hoʻonui ka lehulehu o nā motive i ka hoʻoikaika i kēlā me kēia keiki e makemake e hala i ka manawa me ke kala.

He nīnau paha kāu, nā manaʻo, ka hoʻohewa a loaʻa paha i kahi pepeke? Loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi kumuhana e hōʻike ai iā mākou a i ʻole i kahi kiʻi pena e hana ai mākou? E ʻoluʻolu mai hoʻokaʻulua e hoʻokaʻaʻike iā mākou!


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