Kaukana | ʻO ka moekolohe

ʻAʻole i lōʻihi ka nohoʻana o ka wahine, a ināʻo ia, inā heʻano paʻakikī ia, he hana maʻamau a me ka manaʻoʻole. ʻO ka honi pōmaikaʻi ma hope o ka hanaʻanaʻaʻole ia he mea i kekahi mea i ka hoa pili,ʻaʻohe mea hōʻoluʻolu.

E nānā i ke aloha

Eia kekahi, akā, he like nā hoa likeʻelua: makemake nui lākou no ke aloha, no ka pilina a me ke aloha, no ka moekolohe. ʻAʻole wale me ka hoa,ʻikeʻia, ua neʻe i kahi mamao.

Hiki i ke Soulsex ke lilo i alanui e hoʻoulu hou i ke kuko no ka mea hoʻokahi ke aloha mau ke aloha.

Soulsex
E like me ka pili o ka pilina me ia me Soulsex

ʻO ka maikaʻi a me ka makemakeʻole

I ka hoʻomakaʻana o kahi pilikino a iʻole kekahi mea, hiki ke kānana i ka kānalua ma laila. Hāʻawi mākou iā mākou iho i ka hoa pili aʻaʻole loa kahi mea e hiki iā ia ke hana e kāpae ai iā mākou no kaʻikeʻana iā ia heʻono.

ʻO kekahi laʻana, nā poʻe maʻi i kūpilikiʻi i hikiʻole ke hoʻohana i ko lākou mau naʻau - aʻaʻole paha he manawa kūpono e nānā aku ai i ko lākou moe koloheʻana mai keʻano o ka noʻonoʻo - e like me ka hana like. Ke hōʻike nei nā mea mālama i nā hale hānai i ka nui o kēia mau mea noho i ka moekolohe, akā naʻe ma keʻano o ka manaʻo.

ʻO ka makemake i ka moekolohe aia ma laila,ʻo ia ma kahi hui lōʻihi. Akā inā pili ka hana, hoʻololi ka noʻonoʻo i kekahi manawa - aʻoi aku ka meaʻole i ka mea i makemake muaʻia e hōʻino. ʻAʻole hiki i ka leʻaleʻa maikaʻi ke manaʻo maikaʻi, akā,ʻo ka noʻonoʻoʻana i nā mea e makemake ai i nā mea'ē aʻe.

He aha ka Soulsex?

Hoʻomanaʻo nā kānaka a pau i nā mea pilina,ʻaʻole i pili wale i ke kino, akā, ka pili pili i ka hoa. Ma kahi hou o nā pilina i hoʻomaka houʻia ai kahi aloha e pono ai a ma kahi iʻole ai nā kūlohelohe, e ulu ana kēia hiʻohiʻona o ka pilina launa. ʻO ia ka mea kākau moʻolelo Eve-Maria Zurhorst e makemake ana e hou i loko o kāna puke "Soul Sex - Rediscovering Physical Love".

No ka mea he aha ka mea e maikaʻi ai kā mākou maikaʻi i kēiaʻano o ka wahine? ʻO ia ke ala e maikaʻi ai nā pā a pau, a pehea nō hoʻi e hiki ai iā mākou ke haʻi aku i nā mea a mākou makemakeʻole. Hoʻomaʻamale nā ​​hoa hou i kekahi i kekahi a he mea pono e kaʻana like i ka mea a lākou e makemake ai a me ka mea a lākou e makemakeʻole ai. ʻO ia ka hana a kēlā me kēia hoa eʻike i ka mea'ē aʻe ma kēiaʻano, eʻike i ka mea āna e makemake ai a me keʻano o ka hoʻopāʻana e hana maikaʻi iā ia a i ka wā hea.

I ka wā o ka pili lōʻihi, pono mākou eʻike hou kahi kahi e makemake ai ka hoa e hoʻokomo, aloha aʻo ka noho mau i kaʻike. ʻAʻole i loaʻa kahi maʻamau, e like me ka meaʻike iā ia iho - hiki i ka Soulsex ke nani a me kaʻike hou o nā makemake a me nā mea e pono ai o ka hoa a me ke kokoke, e hiki mai ana me kā lākou weheweheʻana.

Pehea e hana aiʻo Soulsex?

Hoʻoponopono i nā mea
ʻO ke kanaka'ōpio - ke aloha

E hoʻomaka anaʻo Soulsex me kēlā me kēia kanaka.

Inā pēlā, e hoʻomauʻia. Akā ināʻae lākou e hoʻokuʻu i ke kānalua a me ka mamao, pono e'ōlelo i ka hoa. ʻAʻole ia he hewa, akā,ʻo ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo, heʻano'ē nā honi. , Pili. Pono.

Malia paha hiki iāʻoe ke haʻalele loa, ināʻaʻole he mea. Pono e hoʻonuiʻia kēia noʻonoʻo e ka nui o nā kāne a me nā kānaka, akā hiki iā lākou ke hana like. He mea nui ke haʻi aku i ka hoa a hōʻike i kāu makemake - a he mea nui e komo.

ʻAʻole ia i manaʻo i nāʻaʻahu uluwehiʻole aiʻole nā ​​mea hōʻoluʻoluʻole, e waiho wale i "nā mea hou" i mea eʻono ai i ke ola wahine. ʻO kahi wale nō i ka makemake i ka moekolohe. Hoʻohui kekahi hoa me lākou. Hoʻopuka ka hoa'ē aʻe i ka huakaʻi eʻike i ka hoʻokōʻana - aʻo ka hope.