Nā keiki - aʻo e lilo i ke pāʻani

ʻO ka mea e nānā ana i nā keiki e pāʻani a pāʻani paha me lākou hiki ke ʻike pinepine ʻaʻole maikaʻi lākou i ka lilo ʻana. ʻO ka mea e nele ai nā mākua, ʻaʻole i loaʻa mau i nā keiki. Pono kēlā me kēia keiki e aʻo i ka lilo ʻana he ʻāpana o ka pāʻani a, ma mua o nā mea āpau, pehea e lilo pono ai.

Pehea e aʻo ai nā keiki i ka lilo ma ke pāʻani ʻana

ʻAʻole ia ma ke ʻano o ke keiki e kūlohelohe mai kahi nalowale ʻana i ka makahiki ʻekolu. E lele paha ka dice a me nā ʻāpana i ke kihi o ka lumi aʻe ma mua o ka wiwo ʻole.

ʻO ka pāʻani ʻana hoʻi ke ʻano o ke aʻo ʻana e lilo
ʻO ka pāʻani ʻana ke aʻo ʻana e nalo - © Dan Race / Adobe Stock

Ma nā ʻano o ka hoʻomohala ʻana, ʻaʻole hiki i nā keiki o kēia au ke hana iki i kēia. Ma waho o ke aʻo ʻana i ka pāʻani iā ​​ʻoe iho, pono ʻoe e aʻo pehea e nalo ai. Hiki i kēlā me kēia mākua ke hoʻomaopopo i ka paʻakikī o ke kūlana ma ke ʻano he nalo, no laila pono ʻoe e aʻo i kāu poʻe keiki pehea e hana ai me ka eo.

Hoʻoikaika i ka hilinaʻi ponoʻī o nā keiki

Hiki i nā keiki ikaika ke lilo i poʻe mākua ikaika. ʻO nā keiki me ka hilinaʻi pono iā lākou iho e puka aku i waho o kahi kūlana, ʻaʻole wale i kēia makahiki akā ma hope.

Akā ʻaʻole pono lākou e aʻo ia mea ma o nā ʻike maikaʻi ʻole, no ka laʻana ke ʻakaʻaka ʻia a hoʻonāukiuki ʻia paha lākou ma ke ʻano he nalo maikaʻi ʻole i ka pāʻani ʻana me nā keiki ʻē aʻe. E haʻalele ana ia i nā mea hoʻomanaʻo maikaʻi ʻole. No laila e kūkulu nā mākua i ka hilinaʻi ponoʻī o ke keiki i kahi wā mua i hiki ai iā lākou ke aʻo e hoʻomanawanui i nā lanakila a hana maikaʻi me lākou. ʻAʻohe paha makemake kekahi e lilo, ʻaʻole i nā mākua, no laila ʻo ka huhū a me ka hōʻeha ka hopena maʻamau ma hope. Eia nō naʻe, he mea nui e hoʻokele i kēia huhū a me ka huhū a ʻaʻole e ʻike ʻia "huhū makapō", no ka ʻōlelo.

E aʻo ʻoiai e pāʻani ana me nā pāʻani kūpono i nā makahiki

Me ko lākou aloha āpau no ke keiki a me ko lākou ʻike āpau, ʻaʻole pono nā makua e ʻae e alakaʻi hewa ʻia i ka ʻae ʻana i ke keiki ke lilo maoli. ʻAʻole aʻo ke keiki mai kēia, ma mua o nā mea āpau ʻaʻole ia e aʻo no ke ola hope. A laila ʻaʻole hiki ke alo aʻe i ka huhū a me ka hoka i ka nalo ʻana, akā pono e kū i kēia kūlana.

Me nā pāʻani kūpono, i hoʻolālā mua ʻia e kūpono i nā makahiki, hiki i nā keiki ke aʻo maʻalahi pehea e ʻae ai i ka eo. ʻO kēlā ʻano pāʻani, he pāʻani kaiāulu kahi e loaʻa ai ka lanakila i kēlā me kēia - ma ka liʻiliʻi no nā keiki ʻōpio nui loa kēia.

He kōkua pū kekahi mea leʻaleʻa kiʻekiʻe, no ka mea, poina i nā keiki he nui he hiki ke pili i ka lanakila ʻana kēia. Ke liʻiliʻi nā keiki, ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke haku i nā lula āpau a pono i ke alakaʻi a me ka nānā ʻana o nā mea pāʻani keu. Eia nō hoʻi, ʻaʻole pono nā mākua e kuhikuhi koʻikoʻi i nā lula āpau, akā e hoʻolauna i nā keiki i ka hopena hope loa o nā lula ma kahi ʻano hoʻomaha a hoʻomaha hoʻi.

Pehea ʻoe e hana ai me ka huhū o nā keiki?

ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻohe o kēia mau pōkā hoʻokalakupua i hiki ke hoʻohuli i nā mea nalo i lilo i nā poʻe lilo hauʻoli. Ma kahi iki kahi manaʻo iki o ka eo ʻana o ka pāʻani, inā ʻaʻole ʻoliʻoli kekahi e pili ana i kahi lanakila. Inā kūleʻa ʻole ke keiki, pono e noho mālie nā mākua a haku ʻia.

I ka manawa e mālie ai ka mea liʻiliʻi, ʻoluʻolu ʻo ia i nā wehewehe a me ka hōʻoluʻolu. Maliʻa paha he mea kūpono loa ia e hāʻawi i kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a me ka manaʻolana o "e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka manawa e hiki mai ana" kōkua pū kekahi ma muli o ka hoka o kēia wā.


E ʻike ʻoe i nā ʻaoʻao kala manuahi he nui me nā hoʻolālā ʻoluʻolu keiki no nā keikikāne a me nā kaikamahine. Me nā anakuhi lima hana lima, nā puʻupuʻu aloha keiki, nā ʻōkuhi no nā hana helu, nā manaʻo pāʻani a me ka puka makua no nā mākua. Kūpono nā ʻaoʻao kala no nā keiki mai ka papa mālaaʻo a i ke kula haʻahaʻa. Ma muli o ka pena ʻana i nā kiʻi e paipai ʻia ai ka laulima ʻana o ka maka me ka mākau, nā mākau koʻikoʻi a maikaʻi hoʻi, ka hana ʻana, ka typeface a waiho i ka manaʻo o nā keiki i ke kūʻokoʻa. A hoʻonui ka lehulehu o nā motive i ka hoʻoikaika i kēlā me kēia keiki e makemake e hala i ka manawa me ke kala.

He nīnau paha kāu, nā manaʻo, ka hoʻohewa a loaʻa paha i kahi pepeke? Loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi kumuhana e hōʻike ai iā mākou a i ʻole i kahi kiʻi pena e hana ai mākou? E ʻoluʻolu mai hoʻokaʻulua e hoʻokaʻaʻike iā mākou!


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