He aha ka mea e hiki iā mākou ke aʻo mai kā mākou poʻe keiki

Aʻo aku mākou a hānai i kā mākou poʻe keiki e like me ko mākou manaʻo. Akā he aha ka mea e hana inā mākou, nā mākua, e aʻo mai iā lākou? E pōmaikaʻi paha ke kuanaʻike o ke keiki, a ma ka hana o kēlā me kēia lā?

"E lilo wau i superstar". "Makemake wau e lilo i astronaut"

Manaʻo nā keiki. ʻO ka hapa nui o ka manawa, hoʻopili pū lākou i nā mea ke kūpono ʻole lākou.

He aha ka mea e hiki iā mākou ke aʻo mai kā mākou poʻe keiki
He aha ka mea e hiki iā mākou ke aʻo mai kā mākou poʻe keiki - © epixproductions / Adobe Stock

I kekahi hihia, hana lākou i kekahi mea. Hoʻomaʻamaʻa lākou i ka hana ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i kahi ʻoluʻolu a hoʻopaʻa pono no nā pahuhopu a lākou i hoʻonoho ai, no ka manawa iki. 

Akā hoʻokau kekahi i kā lākou mau manaʻo kamaliʻi i ka hana mau. ʻO ka poʻe mākua, ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē, ʻike mua i nā pilikia a me nā mea keʻakeʻa.

No laila aia kekahi mau mea i mua o nā keiki a hiki iā mākou ke (re-) aʻo?

Hiki i nā mākua ke aʻo pono i kekahi mea mai ke kūlike ʻole o nā keiki. ʻAʻole ʻike ka poʻe liʻiliʻi i ko lākou honua me nā maka ʻokoʻa, ʻike pinepine lākou ia mea he holistic.

ʻO ke kūlike ʻole a me ka noʻonoʻo ʻana o ke keiki

ʻO kahi laʻana, pena ʻoe i nā kiʻi e haʻi i nā moʻolelo holoʻokoʻa. Hiki i kēia ke lilo i mea maʻalahi a i ʻole nā ​​helehelena. ʻAʻole ʻoe e ʻike wale i ka mea maopopo wale nō, akā e nānā pū i nā motive mai nā manaʻo like ʻole.

Ke nānā ʻoe i kahi pena pena kaulana na Picasso, no ka laʻana, he aha kāu e ʻike ai?

Eia kekahi, ʻo nā keiki āpau he mea pena kiʻi. He mea hana ʻoe, e tinkering mau ana me kekahi mea, pena kiʻi i nā moemoeā a me ka hana ʻana i nā mea hou. ʻAʻole lākou e hoʻohana wale i nā mea e like me kā lākou kumu i manaʻo ai, akā hoʻohana i ko lākou manaʻo e hana i nā huahana hou loa mai iā lākou.

Hoʻoikaika nō hoʻi nā kamaliʻi i ka hana ʻana i nā huaʻōlelo hou. ʻO lākou paha nā mea paʻi kope ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi? 

Akā kūpono nā keiki o kēia lā i ka mākeke uila. ʻIke lākou i ko lākou ala a puni nā papa a me nā kelepona ma mua o ka aʻo ʻana i ke kākau a heluhelu paha.

ʻAʻole ʻoe ʻike i ka makaʻu a i ʻole nā ​​mea kūpilikiʻi hiki ʻole ke hōʻea. Eia kekahi, mai hopohopo no ka hana hewa. Ma ka liʻiliʻi ʻaʻole. Hāʻawi kēia iā lākou e aʻo wikiwiki a maʻalahi hoʻi.

Kūpono a pololei nā keiki

A aia kekahi ʻano maikaʻi i loaʻa i nā keiki, ua nalowale kekahi o nā mākua. Kūpono ʻoe a pololei hoʻi. Inā ʻike ke keiki i kahi ʻōpū nui, a laila e ʻōlelo ākea paha lākou: "He ʻōpū nui kou".

ʻAʻole nō kēia manaʻo he mea hōʻeha. He ʻōlelo wale nō ia. Akā inā ʻōlelo ka poʻe liʻiliʻi i kekahi mea maikaʻi maoli, ʻaʻole manaʻo nui nā mākua i kēia a nānā ʻole paha iā ia. Ke kumu: ua loli nui nā ʻike o nā mākua.

Hele maikaʻi nā mea āpau me ka minoʻaka

Akā ʻo ka mea nui i poina i nā mākua he nui pehea e ʻakaʻaka ai. Ua ʻike nā ʻepekema ʻakaʻaka nā keiki ma kahi o 400 mau manawa i ka lā. ʻO ka poʻe mākua, ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē, ʻakaʻaka i ka awelika o 15 a 20 mau manawa i ka lā. ʻO wai ka mea hauʻoli me kēlā?

Denn wer häufig lacht, verbreitet eine gute Stimmung. Und eine solche würde sicher auch die eigene Sichtweise und das Arbeitsklima verbessern sowie die eigene Leistung fördern.

He nīnau paha kāu, nā manaʻo, ka hoʻohewa a loaʻa paha i kahi pepeke? Loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi kumuhana e hōʻike ai iā mākou a i ʻole i kahi kiʻi pena e hana ai mākou? E ʻoluʻolu mai hoʻokaʻulua e hoʻokaʻaʻike iā mākou!


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