Zogonana mu mgwirizano

Zomwe mafilimu akhala akugulitsa kwa zaka monga kugwirizanitsa kugonana ndikuyika maanja omwe ali pansi pa kukakamizidwa kwakukulu. Ino ndi nthawi yochotsa vutoli lachiwerewere pogwiritsa ntchito mafilimu, wailesi ndi TV.

Chilakolako cha kugonana kwabwino

Kugonjetsedwa, kukwapula, ukapolo: Kugonana kwa Blümchen kumawoneka ngati kutha kwapadera kuchokera ku "Mpaka makumi asanu Shades of Gray".

Zosangalatsa zachiwerewere
Zosangalatsa zachiwerewere

M'mafilimu a Hollywood, omwe anali amanyazi komanso osadziŵa zambiri Anastasia amapereka kwa Christian Gray yemwe ndi wankhanza komanso wokongola kwambiri, yemwe amachititsa Anastasia padziko lonse lapansi.

Nkhani yovutayi yakhala ikugwiritsidwa ntchito usiku wonse ndipo yayamba kukhala moyo wokhutiritsa pogonana kuyambira mutangoyamba kumene kumsika waukulu.

Zingakupangitseni kumva kuti ndinu osangalala: mukakhala ndi moyo wokondweretsa kugonana, muyenera kuyesa kale kuchita zambiri zogonana - kapena ngati mutasinthika ngati mukumira m'mapepala, monga momwe mafilimu ndi masewera achilendo nthawi zonse amachita kukhala.

Osagonana pang'ono, ubale wautali

Tsikulo, tsiku kunja - kulikonse komwe mukuwoneka, mukuwona kuti ndi anthu okhutira, matupi okhwima ndi kuganiza za kugonana komweko. Zoonadi, zenizenizo ndi zosiyana kwambiri: kuwonjezera pa kupsinjika kwa nthawi yopuma, ntchito ndi nyumba, nthawi zambiri mumakhala nthawi yayitali kapena mukufuna kukhala ndi nthawi yambiri yogonana. Ndiponso, Vorturnen wosasangalatsa kuti mumakhala pa TV nthawi zonse vorgebetet, kawirikawiri imatha nthawi yochepa.

M'malo mogonana wina ndi mzake akugwedeza pamaso pa telly. Ambiri amadzifunsa kuti: Kodi ubale wathu kapena moyo wathu wa kugonana ndi wosangalatsa? Kodi wina amamukwiyitsa wokwatirana naye?

Akatswiri ofufuza zachiwerewere ku Hamburg adapeza mu phunziro lomwe izi ndi zachilendo ndipo sizikugwirizana ndi miyendo yovuta ya wokondedwayo. Ukwati ukhalebe, mabanja osakwatirana ali ndi wina ndi mnzake.

Achinyamata okondana kwambiri, mosasamala za msinkhu wawo, amakhala ndi maulendo pafupifupi 10 pa mwezi kugonana wina ndi mzake. Anthu omwe ali ndi ubale wa nthawi yayitali amachita izo panthawi yomweyi pafupipafupi "okha" pa nthawi 4. Ndizodabwitsa kuti mwachiwonekere sikulibe kanthu ngati ubale uli kale ndi 5 kapena zaka 25. Izi makamaka chifukwa chakuti kugonana mwachibadwa kumasintha mukamacheza.

Kafukufuku wamakhalidwe amavomereza kuti, makamaka kumayambiriro kwa chiyanjano, kugonana kumagwiritsidwa ntchito ngati kusokoneza anthu. Mukakhala ndi chibwenzi chotalikira, kugonana kumapita kumbuyo - zinthu zina zimaganizira. Nthawi zambiri, funso limabuka ngati izi zikanakhala bwino.

Pezani zomwe zimasangalatsa onse awiri pamodzi

Inde, ziyenera kukhala zomveka kuti sizinakhale "izo" panobe. Koma ndi zoona kuti moyo wa kugonana umasintha mukamacheza. Funso lakuti wina ayese kuyang'ana malo atsopano ndi losowa.

Kugonana - chikhumbo chachibadwa
Kugonana kumakhala kokondweretsa onse awiri

Kawirikawiri nkhaniyi imakhudza zovuta zomwe zimakhala zovuta kuchitapo kanthu. Lucky ndi anthu omwe ali ndi dokotala wa banja omwe ali ndi chidaliro chonse.

Mfundo yaikulu ndi kuzindikira kuti kugonana kwa wina aliyense ndi kosiyana ndi komwe kunalipo pachiyambi cha chiyanjano. Mwachidziwikire, izi zili ndi ubwino, chifukwa akatswiri amanena kuti kugonana kumakhala mgwirizano wautali, womwe umatcha "kugonana payekha" mwa njira, kumachita kugonana mozama kwambiri.

Mabwenzi amagwirira ntchito limodzi kuti apeze mtundu wa kugonana komwe akufuna kukwaniritsa ndi maloto ndi malingaliro omwe akufuna kuti ayese pamodzi. Komabe, opatsirana pogonana amachenjeza kuti asamalowetsere kutuluka kwapakati pazinthu zoterezi - palibe zitsanzo monga zomwe tatchulidwa kale "Ma Shades of Gray" kapena zithunzi zolaula ziyenera kuphatikizidwa.

Izi n'zosavuta kunena, osati, chifukwa, zokhudzana ndi kugonana zimatayika tsiku ndi tsiku pa munthu aliyense. Izi ndizomwe zimapangitsa anthu kukhala osokonezeka maganizo komanso opanikizika. Mmodzi angangowonjezera kufanana kwamuyaya pakati pa inu nokha ndi anthu omwe amati ndi okonda kwambiri pazofalitsa. Ndiyeno kugonana kumakhala kosangalatsa? Chodziwikiratu.


Kusamba limodzi


Kugonana ndi ntchito zosangalatsa kwa maanja omwe amasangalala pamodzi. Amunawa nthawi zambiri amapeza zogonana. Chofunika ndikuti mukalankhulane wina ndi mzake ndi kunena moona mtima zomwe zikudutsa mutu wanu. N'zoonekeratu kuti izi sizovuta kwa aliyense.

Mwachinyengo, palibe chilankhulo chokwanira ku chikhalidwe cha kugonana mu chikhalidwe chathu, popeza palibe chikhalidwe cholimidwa m'dera lino. Ziyenera kukhala zomveka kuti kugonana kokongola sikungakhoze kugwera kuchokera kumwamba. Eroticism sungathe ndipo imangoyamba nthawi zonse ngati phiri, ngakhale nthawi zonse imawonetsedwa m'mafilimu. Kugonana kwabwino kumafuna kuti muchite chinachake.

Okondedwa chikondi chosayera

Pali njira zosiyanasiyana zopangira moyo wa kugonana kuti muthe kukhutira nazo. Sikophweka nthawi zonse, koma nthawi zonse pali njira.

  • Zosangalatsa zachiwerewere
    Zosangalatsa zachiwerewere

    Kugonana pa nthawi: Kudikira kuti mutha kugonjetsedwa mwadzidzidzi ndikugonjetsedwa ndi chilakolako chakhululukidwa. Anthu amakono amapanga ndi kupanga tsiku lawo lonse - bwanji osagonana? Zoonadi, izi zikuwoneka ngati zosakondweretsa, koma ndi zoona kuti kugonana kosayenera kuli bwino kwambiri kusiyana ndi kugonana konse.

  • Nkhani zokambirana: Kupanga ndondomeko yofuna kugonana pamene mukukamba za kugonana kungakhale chothandizira pa zokondweretsa zanu. Monga momwe mulibe chakudya chofanana chamadzulo tsiku lililonse, kugonana kumakhala pabedi, m'kupita kwanthawi kumangobwereka komanso kubisa. Kupeza malo atsopano, okongola kungakhale kokondweretsa kwambiri.
  • Kutenga nthawi kumathandiza: Pangopita mphindi zingapo m'mafilimu, mpaka otsutsa akumira mumakono okongola kwambiri mumtolo, makamaka ndizosiyana - ndipo ndizo zabwino. Chomwe chimatchedwa "kugonana mofulumira" chikuchitidwa pang'onopang'ono, koma mochuluka kwambiri. Ubwino wa kugonana ukuwonjezeka mofulumira.
  • Kukhala otseguka ku chinachake chatsopano: Kudzoza kochokera ku mabuku ndi mafilimu sikuyenera kukhala koipa. Ndikofunika kupanga chinthu chabwino kuchokera mmenemo. Sichiyenera kukhala nsonga, zikwapu ndi nyali zoyaka. Mwachitsanzo, mungayambe mwakulumikiza maso anu. Zimatengera mitundu yonse ya kugonana kuti onse awiri amve bwino. Kotero kuti kugonana ndibwino, ndikofunika kuti nthawi zina ayi amavomerezedwa.

Masamba ena okhudzana ndi kugonana, kukondana ndi kuunikira